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Teaching Somebody A Lesson

STOP TRYING TO TEACH PEOPLE A LESSON! In the words of my father the more I talk to you the dumber I get it and me as a child I wish this nigga would’ve shut up. Now keep in mind when you have kids people fail to recognize that each child needs to be attending to differently. I am not my sister that doesn’t work on me I’m not an egoist person, one of my spirit animals is an otter baby. But lets get back on track over the past few weeks, months, years, and the rise of social media has made people feel like its their job to humble someone.

Now I do believe in educating someone, healthy debates, and exposing them to information so they can learn but this whole you gone understand me better than I do myself is quite disgusting. In this blog I will break this down in segments so you can see what I’m talking about.


In relationships people have this way of doing petty things to each other thinking that they gone learn not mess with them while the meanwhile they want their partner, friend, loved one, husband, or wife to continuously keep messing with them. And when I say mess with them, I’m talking about love, support, being understanding, emotional available, and to have sex with them. You shitting me you only got so many times to be petty with me in a relationship you might as well break up with me and never need me. Because God himself ain’t gone change my mind because I’m going to start to think that you don’t want me baby, toxic isn’t cute. Now granted sometimes in relationships we do have to prove a point to a person but if you always doing that to get a rise out of the person you are dating, my child you might as well prepare to get your prayer list together.

Because we rarely take into account how our actions affect the other person we are dating or friends with. When you are trying to be petty or do spiteful things to get a point across. You do know that you can push a person to the point of no return and that no return can be all the way down to someone wanting to breakup with you or not wanting to be friends anymore. It get it, it’s wrong but you don’t think someone deserves to at least hear where you are coming from before you go off doing thing that you think is beneficial for you. Child, y’all be too grown to be acting so childish in these relationships with people who you say you love or care about. I get it we live a in world where social media makes people feel like just because someone else identifies with a behavioral patterning you have at the time that you think its cute to always be like that.

Those people on social media don’t know you and if you knew social media like I do most of the times people be tweeting, posting, or snapping about moments they have with real life people. Social media gave people the ground to say things they would never say in person such as; I like you, I want to date, you look nice today, good morning, or just general conversation starters. Then two if you see how the whole cancel culture gangs up on people to get people to dislike other people for their preferably reasoning. They sometimes forget that there is a whole nother market of people that will identify with that person you are trying to cancel.

Boy, do they making people relevant with that shit. I digress though, but in relationships people fail to recognize that when you decide to be friends, in love, or just dating a person you sign up to learn them. That doesn’t mean that some people will use the information they have in a good way sometimes they abuse the information they have. But it isn’t some one’s job to make someone understand them or change them. When you value the people in your life, and they value you they are willing to change accordingly because they respect you as a whole.