Happiness is the key to success is the most cliché statement that has ever been known to man. I mean honestly when I wrote it on my board, I found it quite funny, but you know this blog post isn’t about that statement.
I was watching a video and the person was talking about happiness and believing in yourself after falling off the horse again. And to my surprise I got on twitter and they were talking about therapy sessions they have experienced with counselors. Some was funny but the others were people who didn’t want to take accountability for their actions. It was a bit narcissistic much how people always find the narcissism in others but themselves.
I found myself plagued with the reality of how people view life. Some people in the comments were talking about some deep traumatic experiences and they counselors where trying to get them to accountability for their life at the moment. Now I’m not saying some rapist should get off with scot free murder but the power they have over the victim is when the victim doesn’t know they are still one. I mean the way they interact with friends, family, and interpersonal relationships tells it all.
By all means it didn’t exclude the pain they have felt in their life but at the same time they wanted the power to be able to move forward without addressing the problem. I’m a firm believer that everything happens when it supposed to, and I am a believer that things are hidden perfectly especially from the naked eye. I mean we all have secrets we gone take to the grave with us.
But from what I took away from the conversation someone was having was that they weren’t ready to fully heal from the past. On this road to healing I had to come to terms with some people meaning I wasn’t going to receive to an apology from them did it make the situation better hell no but knowing a piece of my emotion was going towards that made me fight for my power back. See people would hear somebody say happiness is the key to success and try to always come up reason why it wouldn’t work or why it failed in the past and won’t take accountability for their actions.
I’m talking about people who get back on the dating scene knowing they haven’t healed and go on the timeline saying all men ain’t shit and women ain’t nothing but hoes! Yeah, them niggas. And I want to say niggas is collective word for every race FYI it doesn’t give you the right to say it, but we all are one in my eyes. Let’s continue.
Society keeps on pushing this victim narrative where everything in life is supposed to hanky dowry all the time making us chase unrealistic expectations. Have you seen social media I mean sheesh I just started a YouTube channel and wanting my views to ring like on here and the other project? Impossible, not for me to achieve but to obtain it so quickly. I mean Divine is like girl I just helped you out on your website you barely have a schedule for readings sit down nah! And I’m like okay.
But I get tired of people venting about their problems to people who don’t give a damn about them because a real friend, family, boo, baby, or lover wouldn’t sit there purposely wanting someone they love to struggle. What kind of demonic shit is that? I mean we barely get into to breaking down the human behaviors because the minute we do here come the got damn think police trying to correct someone on there self-evolution. The world is black and white so it always going to be a negative with the positive it just depends on what side of the karmic balance you play out on.
I mean the world is dying for love and support and asking to be saved like when one person doesn’t even want to share or help the collective achieve their happiness. Whether it be you want to eat gum all day, have sex, smoke weed, get money, work, have kids, be a wife, or a hustler. It is your choice I am firm believer that some people reincarnate in this lifetime just to be or to accomplish the things that make them happy.
Social media is like a drug that got the world gone mad I mean the rich getting rich and the poor is losing their damn sanity trying to become rich because it’s all you see on social media. I mean social media highlights all the narcissistic behaviors in ourselves. Y’all don’t remember when I post about the lady doing a spread about the real narcissist and the narcissism with in us that was going to be highlighted because of COVID-19. I mean the people that’s spiritual get it and I’m not talking about no candle lighting magic ritual user you don’t have to do none of that to be spiritual. Beloved!
Its your perception of reality and how you give back to this universe and others in it. I think the most spiritual thing anybody can do is give love. I mean real love. Some of yall need to define it because every time somebody mention LOVE yall always thinking somebody talking about a damn relationship. Ugh, NO! There are other ways to experience love without it always being interpersonal.
So, I wrote all this to say that it sucks when you fall down, and it’s going to suck again and again. Nobody likes to feel like a failure but baby when you learn the reason why you keep falling, I promise it want hurt no more. In the words of everybody grandma A HARD HEAD GONE MAKE A SOFT ASS! So, remember as you start to navigate on your healing journey that its always going to be rest stops, distractions, amusements, loss of time and direction. But no matter where you stay or where you are whether it be mentally, emotionally, spiritually, or financially you have to get there. HERE WITH ME!
FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT HAVE EXPERIENCED TRAMAUTIC EVENTS SUCH AS RAPE I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. THE LOSS OF WHO YOU WERE WHEN YOU WERE VILOATED. THE LOSS OF A PIECE OF YOUR SOUL THAT YOU FELT WAS TAKEN FROM YOU. THE IDENTITY SOCIETY HAS PLACED ON YOU TO BE, EVEN IF YOU ARE A SURIVIOR. JUST KNOW AT ANY GIVEN MOMENT YOU CAN CHANGE THE NARRATIVE.