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A QUICK RECAP BEFORE WE GET INTO 2023 PREDICTIONS:

Let's just say this year had bit of melatonin in it, it was bland but seasony at the same time. It left us clenches our pearls while waiting on the other ball to drop while the ball was dropping. It left us in a panic because we felt that we had to live life in a fast and past pace. All the meanwhile we felt that we were moving forward only to be stuck in same rut making the same decisions and getting the same outcomes in different ways. As much I say black people don’t process or feel they emotions we felt something this year besides anger and sadness. And that was true grief the mourning of our elders, ancestors, and parents that made decisions that was a part of their timeline that trickled down and affected us and made us who we are today. For some of you, you left that no good as ex alone and finally chose yourself for once. I didn’t say you was a good person but you finally stood up for something.

That life you were clinging to that was draining you made you come to the realization of saying I need to do better for myself. As much slack we give those people around us some of you came to the realization that it isn't their job to heal you, love you, or support you. And I don’t say all the time, but this is a fact and sometimes we take these moments for granted in people. How they smile because we smile, how they are only truly invested into things only because it makes you happy, how they give you support because they know you need it, and how they are human too. I think over the years we forget what human kindness is, forgiveness is, happiness is, and embodying peace and what it genuinely feels like. Because in a world where I'm on twitter making jokes, we forget sometimes that my happiness is not your happiness. So, the things that bring people joy that they boast about, post about, or even tweet about may seem inhumane to you. But it isn't your job to dissect someone else's truth when we are or have lived in some form of a lie.

We all once thought that man I'm gonna love you forever, I'll ever forget you, I always stay this same weight, height, shape, and my favorite I won’t change because it is humanly impossible for a human not to change. See the way life setup your bound at some point to change whether this your hair, nails, clothes, food, hobbies, creative interest, lovers, sex, and even your mind. It’s funny how I, we, them, and they don’t have all the answers for mankind. Which is perfectly fine with me because I love humans but I damn sho’ll hate y’all ways. So, being controlling and invasive doesn’t work for me because you ain’t about to stress me out and kill me while you go off and live your best life. I seen too many old people unhappy and afraid to live I dare not. Whether they knew it or not or allowed outsiders, naysayers, and fear hold them captive. Nope that’s not my thing I had to work on learning how to let people go because I thought forever meant always.

And to be always you have to be in a state of constant and as for a professional procrastinator I'm here to tell you I am bound to fail you, me, or life at some point in time. Now, I don’t do it with purpose but when I see I'm fucking up I know how to just let go. This doesn’t always equate to my personal relationships or me just giving up and quitting. It's knowing when to take a break and give something a rest. I think this year taught us all when to be through with something because when we don’t want to let go off it baby that shit will try to ruin you. And for as these grief-stricken years we’ve had and I had baby I paid my price I ain’t doing it again. But with all that being said let's get into the 2023 forecast.

BEFORE I START THIS MESSAGEI WANT TO SAY THAT THESE MESSAGES WILL NOT APPLY FOR EVERYBODY. YOU HAVE TO BE INTUNE WITH YOUR JOURNEY. ALSO BE REALISTIC WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO CERTAIN THINGS. IF I PARPAHRASE SOMETHING THAT DOESNT TAKE AWAY THE NEGATIVES OF THE SITUAITION. THIS ISN’T TO EXCLUDE THE NEGATIVES NO THAT IS WHAT PUCHKYOANXIETY IS FOR. THIS IS WHY I WRITE BLOGS, THINK PIECES, AND GIVE TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS. REMEMBER THERE IS ALWAYS A YING AND A YANG. SO. IF YOU ARE STRIVING FOR SOMETHING YOU MAYBE ON THE LATTER OF A SITUATION AND ITS JUST HOW YOU SEE IT. PERSPECTIVE IS BEST. SO, IF YOU WORKING ON SOMETHNG AND CAN’T SEE IT TRY USING YOUR HUMAN EYES AND NOT YOUR THIRD EYE ALL THE TIME.





2023 PREDICTIONS:

Next year will be a number 7 year if you are fond of that number then it is a practical decision, recap, revisiting, closure, endings, and assessments before moving forward. It is almost the epitome of the hanged man energy feeling like your tied up when you can make a decision it just feels like a snooze fest. And if you are not paying attention to the signs, the things you have doing or the universe is giving you, you're probably about to allow the same thing back into your soul contract. And if you have had a run in with some of these dark ass witches who been throwing around shit then you know what the hell they were on. This could be the finalizing of something like new bills, laws, and acts being pushed at this state and time. This year is giving the last-minute touches like not knowing what you been missing and somebody comes up and hand it to you.

And this may come in the form of a lover, partner, friend, or seasonal person. Just accept the reward and be grateful for the things that is happening at this state and time. It's not saying you can't sit in emotional dismay and have your gratitude list ready, but some people are not supposed to be in your life that long. And when I say long this is like making somebody your bestie when a long-distance relationship will probably work best. This energy is like you're trying to get someone in a long-term contract only to keep out the competition when this person may have resources in other areas with people that can help you too. It's like pride, ego, and selfishness will be the demise of some people relationships and business opportunities.

Telemarking came across which may a comeback like payphones and shit like that. For some this would more marketed ads that could be on social media. Girl hopefully will be able to see what type of ads we want or need because child everybody don’t be wanting to see that. So, knowing who to market to will suffice instead of this click bait and overly saturated shit on the time line. The internet gives a billion of people access to each other so, why the hell is everybody forcing viral on everybody or us. What is the end goal? Baby talk to your team. If the public like you use it in your favor if not ball in your lane and make your money comfortably.

You scammers who be hacking into people shit it maybe some form technology that come out an help people block your ass from hacking. And now you have to step up your game because some laws are going to be made for that ish to. We may seem a comeback in corporate America such as offices and buildings actually being utilized more because some people are spending out more money for paying people to do shit at home. Negotiate, negotiate please. Because on the bottom of my page it was some people who was being cleared out from board meetings. You might also see some financial institutions such as a bank being created because of so much fraud that has happened.

For my folks in marriages them rough cycles will be wiped out or the marriage itself will be null and voided. Because the cycles y’all been going through was more than about money, kids, infidelity, and sex it was massive spiritual lessons attached to these problems. Because the issues some of y’all had not only they was with your partner it was other people. So those people who got into relationships based upon being accepted and wanting to run away from your old self. Baby you been getting signs about needing to change. The lesson is greater than your marriage it is you.

Now, for you conflict prone people this maybe the last fallout you have with somebody. I mean like you don’t have to show me no more I get it. If you have been getting them intuitive nudges to leave people alone, certain lifestyle choices, and habits please follow that shit. Because some of y’all its some nasty energy that i